Dede, The Sundanese Tree Man

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That is nuts. Poor guy.
[this is good]
Here I was feeling sorry for myself and then I read this. Sometimes I need a kick in the butt to remember I don't have it so bad at all. Thank you.
I feel sorry for myself too from time to time and ask myself the "Why me?" questions... You're welcome, Jess.
Thank you for sharing this! We may think we have problems or have it bad sometimes, but- if we look at this poor man's condition, we are all really truly blessed!!!
I got an interesting comment from my Facebook friend (because I export my Vox to my Facebook):

Being 'not so good looking' always make people think "nobody love/like me because of how I look'. Sometimes they forget that regardless on how they look, they HAVE TO BE A GOOD PERSON to be loved and liked...

There are many people kind of suffer because the way they 'think' about them self. And if anything bad happened they again "think" it's because of they unfortunate look. Which is not always the case.

I might not love him for his personality :) But then he will think I don't like him because of how he looks :) And I don't think we should just say "we like you" just because we feel sorry for the way he looks either.
And I replied:

I might still be in love with him if I met him before he got the sickness (because I might have been loving his personality for years etc), but honestly, even though looks isn't everything, but still it's something. I want myself to feel comfortable with the person I love to love him/her completely...

But you're right. Don't love someone because we feel sorry for the person. That's insincere, cruel, and it won't last long. And yes, they have to be really a great person to be loved, like we're all have to have something to offer when we want someone to love us.

By the way, his hat is quiet cute :)
It's still easier to love "normal" people anyway...

I think to love and be loved we all have to have good in us, and have things in common. True love comes from within, and isn't based on a person's looks.
I can't be more agree with you, but I've had to be in love with the person long before he got the sickness. This might sound shallow, but I want to be comfortable with the person I'm in love with. Not just loving him because I feel sorry for him... He doesn't have to be great looking, but at least he's not someone I feel like crying to everything I look at because I feel sorry for him.

But yes, we all have to be good from within to be loved and liked.
This is a random throw of galatic dice. I cant manifest a God that feels and acts like humans do. Even if he doesnt, I cant accept a god that judges, punishes and awards. This poor tree man her has a condition unique only to himself. It god willed this in his "plan", I'll say he is extremely bored up there.
Yes, in this case , you would have to have known him long before, I agree. Can't love someone just because you feel sorry for them. That would be wrong.

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